Billy “The Big Bully” Wolf & The Dangers of Silence by Roshonda N. Blackmon

Not one person liked Billy Wolf or the way he treated others, but they’d dare not say anything.

Excerpt from “Billy Wolf & The Kids of Heavenly Hills Elementary” 

As a child growing up, there were quite a few issues that occurred in my life in which I felt like my voice either went unheard or numb to the world around me. I grew up in a household with a bully step-father whom fought my mom to no end, sometimes those fights ended in blood shed, I watched as he hit, degraded and shamed her; whether in public, in front of his or her family and most heartbreakingly, in front of me and my two sisters. Where was my voice to speak up? In this case it was helpless.

I remember being in school, third grade – the teacher would have us line up behind each other once we got out of the bathroom and had a water break. One of my male classmates in whom would purposely stand behind me every time, would touch me inappropriately, he would lean up against me really close, take his hand and dig in my derriere, making his way to touch other parts of me that I didn’t even know was supposed to be touched. This made me feel very uncomfortable and weird. Why was he doing this? Should I say something about it? Would he deny it? Would my voice matter? Where was my voice to speak up? In this case it was scared.

For a couple of years, I was sexually molested by my step-father, my mothers second husband. At first I didn’t know what was going on, he would make my sisters go outside to play when my mother would leave the house and he would come into my room and act as if we were playing a game of hide and seek, thing is – he would find me every-time and my punishment for getting found?, became a reward for him to do what he wanted to do to me. Should I tell my mother? Would she believe me? Would he deny it? Was this supposed to happen? In some sense, was I asking for it and didn’t know it? Where was my voice to speak up? In this case it was numb.

In school, I was bullied by kids – I guess you can say I was the weakest link. I had issues going on at home and issues going on at school, I had no friends but a made up imaginary friend named “Jeannine” in whom I confided and talked to quite a bit. I was always afraid to speak up because I always felt like there would be repercussions for my actions and who would protect me? At the end of the day, It was my word vs. their word. I was hopeless and felt as if they were more powerful and because of that “The Silence” went on for years and years. Until one day – I got the courage to SPEAK UP!

That is the reasoning for me writing the book “Billy Wolf & The Kids of Heavenly Hills Elementary” while the book may seem juvenile, it’s a story of how we as a society can allow one thing or one person take the most powerful thing to ever grace our body away from us and that’s OUR VOICE! Let me tell you, Bullying takes place every….single….day in our society and our lives – you don’t have to be a child to experience it as you have adult bullies as well. Why should we allow one person to have so much power over us, a power that cripples us for years.

ONE VOICE CAN MAKE ALL THE DIFFERENCE!

A difference that will not only empower you, but empower others around you.

Sometimes people are just waiting on someone else to make a BOLD move. I tell my son and daughter all the the time. Don’t be afraid to raise your hand in school to ask a question (they would silence themselves and not do it, afraid that they would hold up the class or that someone would get mad at them) but I told them, the same question you are asking? Is the question that someone else is afraid to ask – so by you asking it’s not only helping you….but them as well.

My hope is that this book will encourage, inspire and motivate kids as well as adults to stand up and use the most powerful tool God gave us and that’s OUR VOICE!

Illustrations were done by the amazingly talented Vineet Siddhartha a.k.a yangvineet @ fiverr.com

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Coming Soon 2018 – To Amazon and a Bookstore near You!

Roshonda N. Blackmon – Creator of JustsumInspiration, Author, Speaker & Encourager

Let’s Live Well, Laugh Loud, Love Hard & Inspire Often!

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9 thoughts on “Billy “The Big Bully” Wolf & The Dangers of Silence by Roshonda N. Blackmon

  1. Brilliant an issue that greatly has had a impact on my son everytime he speaks up he is told it’s just kids being kids and he should learn to brush it off if he was treated on a street how he was great at school it would be seen as a crime the fact he has to deal with it in school and the teachers put it down to his autism and him not userstanding is quite silly really and it has hinderered his ability in school he became a school refuser for a year finally back in full time at senior school still has same issues with same kids.

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    1. Oh my? FayeKerryFarmer – that’s so awesome and I absolutely hate to hear of stories like that because you would think (especially the school) would have a better system set-up to deal with issues of this nature – I just asked my two kids the other day whom their counselor was and neither could tell me or stated that they didn’t think they had one. Really???…When I was in school, that’s all we had and they made sure we knew their names. Schools have taken a back seat to bullying and the pressure that kids face in having to deal with it. I’m going to be praying for your son, if it’s one thing I know – prayer works even when schools don’t. I pray the book not only challenges our children but our schools as well to speak up and take a stand against this, we’ve lost too many beautiful lives as a result of it. Thanks again for reading, xoxo =)

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    1. Aww! Thank you so much Jennifer for reading it and for dropping by. I’m so nervous about it, I really pray that it helps someone, especially our children whom feel they don’t have a voice. Kiss those babies for me, xoxo

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  2. Wow! Firstly, I’m so sorry that you had to deal with any of that; these stories are so common place and it makes me sad for this world. But I am so GLAD you found your voice. Writing can be the absolute best therapy!! I’m excited to read this when it comes out and congratulations!!!

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