It’s My Man Monday! Hey Guys, You’ve got Mail…

I have a message for the man who’s struggling with knowing not only who he is but whose he is today. The man whom doesn’t quite see himself as good enough, the man who has given it his all but still seems to come up short, no matter how much he tries.

I have a message for the man who is troubled because of a failed relationship or marriage and can’t seem to forgive himself because of it. The man whose a great father to his kids but is under appreciated for it. The man who isn’t a great father, but desires in his heart to be. The man who feels he can’t get a good job because of his past mistakes. The man whom can’t seem to kick the habit, any habit. The man who feels trapped in his own body but afraid to tell people his issues because he’s afraid he’d be shunned.

No matter what man issue you have today, whether it’s something that was written here or you have your own unique circumstance. I want you to know that God loves you no matter what you have done and no matter where you may be right now in this so called world called “LIFE” – God sees and he knows and I want you to know that he cares for you.

Do you know that God created you in his own image?, that means that you look like your father and when he created you, he created you to be BOLD, to be GREAT and to be ONE OF A KIND! and that you are, so don’t feel sorry for yourself because maybe you’re not where you feel like you should be right now, maybe you feel as though you made so many mistakes that God wouldn’t want to have anything to do with you and I hate to tell you, but you’re sadly mistaken.

Just as the father embraced the prodigal son (Luke 15: 11-32) when he was far off. The son, walking in shame was getting prepared to become a servant in his fathers home because he felt embarrassed by the wild lifestyle he lived and awfully bad about the portion of money he took from his father to support that lifestyle but when the money ran out and the friends disappeared, he was left with nothing. He took a job working for a farmer whom had him to feed his pigs – the prodigal son was so despaired and hungry, until the food he was feeding the pigs began to look mighty good to him, soon he began to reminisce about the servants in his fathers house and how good they ate. He then decided to go back home and ask his father to become one of them. But the father wouldn’t have it, he embraced his son, kissed him and threw a big party for him because the son he thought was lost and feared for dead, was alive and home again. This was surely not the behavior the son expected his father to give him for the bad decisions or the wrong things he had done but just as that father embraced his lost son, so your father is waiting to embrace, love and bring restoration to your life, he doesn’t even remember what you done or the path you chose to take, he’s just glad that you came back to him. And while you’re being restored, the angels are having a massive party on your behalf.

No matter how far we’ve gone out – God is able to restore us again! Take courage my friend and don’t give up – but look up! and see your father in the distance, hands raised awaiting for you to come and lay in his arms of forgiveness, mercy and grace.

May the video above bless you and put a fresh wind into your journey and let you know how AWESOME you truly are!

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Roshonda N. Blackmon – Creator of JustsumInspiration, Author, Speaker & Encourager

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Women, not to worry – I have something for you on Wednesday!! Stay Tuned…

8 thoughts on “It’s My Man Monday! Hey Guys, You’ve got Mail…

  1. I don’t know why this post has me in my feels lol I think it’s so nice of you, as a woman, to acknowledge and encourage men the way you have in this post. Men struggle emotionally and spiritually too and the need this. I hope many men find this post and are encouraged by it.

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    1. What’s Up blessthecrown! Girl, to God be the glory, it’s funny because I didn’t even have men on my mind when I was thinking of doing a write up, because I’m a woman that’s where my focus was – on the women…lol. But, it was like God put in my spirit to do this for the men and girl, let me tell you – when I started writing I literally couldn’t stop…so I knew it was God that lead me to go this way and you’re right, men suffer I believe more than us women do and they need encouragement because the battles that go on in their mind? Is something else…we never know. Thanks so much for reading, I really appreciate you. Blessings ~

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      1. Oh that was SO God ! I know exactly what you mean. Men really do struggle and in ways that are different from men. And it’s messed up because a lot of them don’t feel safe enough to be vulnerable and express it. God help them. That’s why your post is so important. Since God lead you to this post, I know there is a man out there needing it who will appreciate it so much ! You’re so welcome!

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